Tuesday, December 31, 2013

Five Things I Wish We Christians Would Do in 2014

"I have come that you may have life, and have it to the fullest." ~ Jesus in John 10:10

OK, here it is: another blog entry about the new year setting goals for improvement.  These are a bit different, though, since my prayer is to be part of an ongoing renewal among Christians by taking seriously the message and character of Jesus Christ.  There are many things that we can add to this list.  And this list is certainly not intended to be exhaustive.  Nor is it intended to take shots at any particular group of Christians or any individuals.  The list is more like a prayer: a personal prayer for my own growth in Christ that I hope extends beyond my own intentions and actions and becomes more and more part of what it means to be a community called by God for His purposes. 

1) Listen more to what the Bible and good Christian examples have said about Jesus than what the media says about Christianity. There are plenty of voices in American media – Left and Right, Christian and secular – that propose to speak for Christianity and/or for God.  However, these sources often lead to a misunderstanding of either message or methods of Jesus, or both.  Therefore, I really want to discover and rediscover the heart of the Good News of Jesus through reading (and re-reading) Scripture, through prayer, through interaction with sincere men and women of faith, and through looking at the best Christian writings throughout the centuries in order to be shaped by the work of the Holy Spirit.

2) Live simpler, appreciate the smaller things more.  So much of the Bible reminds us of the value of what would be deemed “small things” by most people.  Humble beginnings, simple resources, and consistent day to day devotion are held in much higher regard by God than the “get all you can while you can, regardless of who it hurts” mentality that is prevalent in many parts of our culture (even in parts of “Christian culture”!).  I want to live simply not just so I can have less stress (which is a bonus!), but also so that I can be free to give to others in the name of Christ, while still meeting the other financial responsibilities in my life.  This does not have to mean living like a monk or a hermit.  But it can mean learning to appreciate extra time with family and friends, while not drowning in the “newest, latest, and greatest” of material things.

3) Guard what I say and how I say it.  Often we Christians get into trouble not because we are wrong about certain facts or even in our theological understandings.  Where we most often get things wrong is in our attitude and in our delivery.  A haughty (proud) mind set and approach to anything, according to Scripture, is a breeding ground for personal sin and is something that God opposes.  May we learn that we can be right about “facts” and still be “wrong” if we do not speak the truth in love.

4) I want my fellowship and worship with other believers to be the hub of my family’s activity and not just an add-on to my weekThere was a time when much of the community’s calendar revolved around church life.  Sports and even schools would plan with an eye toward key events in the church calendar.  That is no longer the case.  And that means that the church is often cast in the role of competitor for family time.  Consequently, the first thing taken off many family calendars during busy times is church involvement.  This is the opposite of the way the rhythm of our lives was intended to be, however.  The New Testament reminds us that our best living flows out of times of refreshing and worship with other believers.  When we flip that around, the rhythm of our lives is off, and it is our families and our own personal walk with God that suffers the most in the long run.  May we say “no” more often to those things which consistently pull us away from consistent worship and fellowship together, so that when we are able to say “yes”, we can do so in a way that is empowered to participate as strong witnesses for Christ.

5) Learn something new!  For many of us, it is easy to coast and even to stagnate.  This mind set prompts us to merely survive rather than to really live.   We also spend so much time and energy defending what we think we know that we fail to grow into better human beings.  Furthermore, in our coasting toward stagnation, we find it easier to let others think for us.  This year, may we ask hard questions, especially of ourselves and also of those who purport to speak for us.  We can grow and learn something new by reading, and also by asking questions of others.  Who knows?  We may end up building deeper relationships in the process, both with God and with others. 

Christians have always been taught to hold onto everything we have with a loose grip.  Our theology and our history have taught us that we cannot be assured of tomorrow, but that at the same time, we do not have to fear tomorrow.  Walking with the risen Christ is a challenge to our own egos and to our control, but it makes every day an adventure of grace, even when we are just going about our day to day lives.  May this year be filled with God’s grace, with discovery, and with new heights of love for God and for others.  Happy new year!


Tuesday, December 24, 2013

I Want the Real Jesus for Christmas

The shepherds left their sheep to get a glimpse.  The Magi from the East came a long distance to bring Him gifts and to admire God’s handiwork.  His mother and father left comfortable and familiar surroundings more than once for His sake.  Years later, people would leave their jobs, their families, and even their physical safety in order to follow this Jesus, who went around doing good and proclaiming the in-breaking of God’s new way of living, according to Scripture. 

I want the real Jesus for Christmas, too.  I am no longer interested in the safe, comfortable, popularized distant version of Jesus.  But, like those mentioned above and like countless others throughout history, following the Jesus I see in Scripture is going to be uncomfortable, and even costly at times.  Perhaps I may not have to sacrifice in ways that many other Christ followers throughout the world are sacrificing at this very moment.  Maybe it will not cost me as dearly as it has cost millions of Christians throughout history. 

However, according to Jesus, anyone who will not willingly sacrifice his or her life – “take up the cross,” is Jesus’ words – will never truly follow the real Jesus.  Here are some things that challenge me about following the real Jesus:

1) The real Jesus was kind and loving to those who were poor and struggling.  Jesus’ first hometown sermon was about “proclaiming the good news to the poor.”  This was controversial and even offensive to those who thought the poor not worthy of extra time and attention.  Yet, the real Jesus spent the most time with these folks.

2) The real Jesus spoke the truth to power, was harshest on religious people, and was most patient and gentle to lost people.  Our culture – even our “Christian culture” -- would reverse all of this! We often tell power whatever they want to hear so that they can perhaps share their power with us (just look at how the far Right and the far Left in American Christianity has pandered to those in political power in the last forty years especially).  We tend to go easy on religious people, especially those who get a lot of media attentions (again, because we like seeing “one of us” in prominent places, so whatever they say and in whatever way they say it often becomes more important to us than what Jesus said and how He said things).  And, we tend to be particularly harsh with lost people (I think it’s because, like the corrupt leaders of Jesus’ day, we know that these people have relatively little power and influence, and we feel better about our own sins when we castigate theirs!).  The way we reverse these characteristics of Jesus is a form of idolatry: creating Jesus in our own image, instead of humbly allowing Jesus to transform us into His own image.  We miss out on the real Jesus by continuing in our stubborn and controlling ways.  Which brings us to our next point….

3) The real Jesus humbled Himself.  That’s right.  The One who had all power, through whom all things were made (see John 1), the Lord of lords, came not in a way that overpowered those who opposed Him.  Instead, He came in love-filled truth and truth-filled love.  He did not stop being loving when He was right.  And He did not sacrifice the truth of His message just to appear loving.  He was both all at once: a lesson that all of us could stand to learn better.  Often when we are right (especially in matters of religion and ethics and the Bible), we think it gives us the “right” to express ourselves any way we choose.  Again, I notice that Jesus saved His harshest critique for those of us who were either already followers (like the 12 disciples), or who thought they were following God but were really substituting God’s ways for their own (like the Pharisees in the Gospel of Matthew).  When Jesus approaches people like the Samaritan woman at the well (John 4), or the crafty tax collector Zaccheus, it is the gentleness of Jesus that shines through and that leads both of them to repentance.  It is true that with these two Jesus does not ignore their need for correction, but Jesus does it in such a way that encounters them with life-changing love.  Mean-spirited and judgmental rhetoric would have likely accomplished the opposite response from these and others like them.  I also note that even when Jesus was delivering hard truth to the powerful or to those who were abusing their religious or political power, there was a deep desire for them to be changed.  Jesus even loved the rich young ruler who publicly rejected Jesus’ invitation to eternal life.  This Jesus – the real Jesus—cared more about the message getting to those who needed it than He cared about simply “being right” or shaming those who were wrong.

After Jesus’ crucifixion and resurrection, the Apostle Paul would write that we should be more like the real Jesus (from Philippians 2):

Who, being in very nature[a] God,
did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage;
rather, he made himself nothing
by taking the very nature[b] of a servant, being made in human likeness.
And being found in appearance as a man,
    he humbled himself
    by becoming obedient to death—
        even death on a cross!

People are not lining up to follow the “principles of Jesus.”  Nor will they line up to follow the American Jesus, the Republican Jesus, the Democrat Jesus, or every other cheap substitute.  People are hungering to follow the real Jesus: the Jesus whom the Gospel and Paul and many devoted Christians throughout history describes.  

This Christmas – and throughout the year – my prayer is that I will accept no substitutes, that I will not try to create Jesus in my own image (or in the image of some other well-known vocal Christian), and that I will not be afraid to imitate the real Jesus, regardless of what religious or non-religious people say. 
And along the way, this real Jesus reminds me to love even those who want to make Jesus into something He is not.  I am called to love them, even if they disagree with me.  Perhaps His greatest gift to us is the ability to do just that in His name. 


Merry Christmas!

Thursday, December 5, 2013

Fixing the Mess We Made: A Response to Dr. Thom Rainier

A Facebook friend of mine shared a well-written blog from a longtime pastor who started his ministry in 1984, in the early days of the so-called "Church Growth Movement."  Dr. Thom S. Rainier (a respected former pastor who is now President and CEO of Lifeway Christian Resources for the Southern Baptist Convention), entitles his article, “7 Ways Pastoring Has Changed in Thirty Years” (see: http://www.christianpost.com/news/7-ways-pastoring-has-changed-in-thirty-years-110044/ ).  After a brief introduction to what I see as the context of his article, I will look at his seven points and give my own assessment as to why things have changed in the ways he has described.  I appreciate Dr. Rainier’s work in this article and in many other writings throughout the years, and I credit Stan Parker for bringing the article to my attention on his Facebook post. 

The Way Things Were

I started in vocational Christian ministry almost a decade later than Dr. Rainier did, when the report card for the Church Growth Movement (CGM) had not fully come to light.  I remember long conversations in my seminary days with other students and pastors (and people who, like me, were both students and pastors) about the love affair that Evangelical churches were having with certain emphases in church life and the possible dangers, theologically speaking, of that movement and those writers.  

A handful of "successful" (in terms of numbers) churches and leaders became beacons for new and/or struggling pastors.  These “successful” pastors were shying away from reading pastoral theology or even from formal pastoral training and were instead defining their roles in terms of secular CEOs.  Popular business school writers, like Stephen Covey, author of Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, became standard “textbooks” for this new generation of pastors, and writers who emerged from their ranks sounded much more like Zig Ziglar (the popular motivational speaker, who himself was a Christian and therefore found astounding success in his publications sales) than like Luther, Wesley, or Calvin. 

Those of us who came a bit late to this party (early to mid 1990s) found ourselves already enmeshed in the struggle to find our identities as pastors.  Some of us chose writers like Henri Nouwen, William Willimon, and Eugene Peterson (writers whose sense of ministry tended toward the theological/pastor/shepherding approach), while others flocked toward the likes of Bill Hybels, George Barna, and John Maxwell (Church Growth Movement writers and pastors who embraced a “CEO” kind of approach).  In the short-run, those of us who chose the former writers (the shepherding approach) found ourselves feeling the pressures of non-conformity.  Why were we choosing to seek growth at a slower pace, instead of plugging in the latest marketing tools and homogeneous growth unit techniques?  Why did we still insist on prominently displayed crosses, public reading of Scripture, mixing old hymns with the new choruses, and not finding ways to make this treasure trove of Baby Boomers feel “at home” so that they would give, attend, invite their plethora of Boomer friends, and “get involved” with us?  

Some of these same pastors were “rising up the ranks” to become leaders on district and global levels of mine and other denominational groups.  A handful of these leaders were even elevated to celebrity status and urged their own growing spheres of influence to immerse themselves in the techniques and writers that helped them to produce the numbers that made them a “success.”

Then What Happened?

Colleagues who chose the Church Growth Model early on often did see some short term growth: emphasizing numbers can actually bring about some numeric growth, at least in the short run.  However, many of those same leaders and churches have, over the past thirty years, seen once overflowing sanctuaries diminish, and all of the debt acquired in building “bigger and better and best” buildings and programs still accumulating interest as smaller and less funded congregants are still struggling on. 

The reason?  Many of those who once funded and attended have either found better marketing elsewhere, or they did not have a deep relational or theological connection to secure their long term loyalty.  Still others (especially older Boomers) have abandoned these slick marketing-driven churches and denominational groups for – of all things! – the more traditional Catholic, Orthodox, and Protestant mainline churches!  It is as if these “older Boomers” (many of whom are at or are approaching retirement) looked at their mortality for the first time and said, “Is this all there is to my spiritual life?  A few choruses and a ‘relevant’ sermon?” 

Statistics now tell us that this group has become a large “feeder” group for churches with unapologetic tradition in both liturgy and approach.  As one Catholic leader has said recently, quoted by now retired Methodist Bishop William Willimon, “While you many of you Protestant groups were trying to be so relevant, many of us were just sticking to the ancient truths and practices that have worked for us for centuries.  We figured that would be relevant again someday!”  And they were right.

Statistics also tell us that the children and grandchildren of those who helped drive the CGM are either seeking more traditional and “authentic” expressions of spiritual life, or are simply abandoning church altogether (the so-called “nones”, which are a demographic of those who in record numbers are indicated their religious preference as “none”).  Those who are staying in church life are seeking more traditional expressions, even if parts of their worship experience may be called “contemporary”(what I have sometimes called, “Thousand year old liturgy with bass guitars”).  The same spiritual shallowness that moved their grandparents and parents away from once overflowing sanctuaries and auditoriums has caused this younger generation to seek out smaller, more intimate communities where authenticity and spiritual/theological depth are the norm.  Whereas the CGM generation’s mantra was thought to be: “Market to me correctly and you just may get me”; this generation’s cry is more along the lines of: “Stop marketing to me and just be authentic!  I get enough marketing every day!”

Ironically, even one of the leading Church Growth Movement writers, marketing expert George Barna, has written in his book Revolutions that he sees very little hope for the future of church life as we know it.  I would argue that this is because the vision of church life that he and others like him adopted and even help create was not the revolution they thought it would be.  It fell short theologically and relationally.  So, it may not be such a bad thing that churches and the pastorate have changed so drastically in the past thirty years or so, and it may be great (not negative or disconcerting, as Barna seems to think) – theologically speaking – that Barna sees little hope for his version of church life to continue in the future.  This leads me to my assessment and reflection on Dr. Rainier’s timely article in terms of the context I have tried to establish.

Addressing the Seven Changes

Thomas Rainier addresses seven changes he has observed in the past thirty years that are essential for being a pastor in today’s church environment.  I will address one at a time and then conclude my article.

1) Thirty years ago, most people in the community held the pastor in high esteem.
 Dr. Rainier is correct, but it seems that, based upon reasons I give above, we pastors are to blame more than society is to blame for this.  As I stated, most of Evangelical Christianity thirty years ago entered into a struggle for pastoral identity.  Most of the prominent pastors – and many who became influential denominational leaders – opted to redefine the role of pastors and overseers in terms of CEOs, human resource directors, coaches, and marketers.  Our society is overrun with these roles but has very few shepherds, preachers, and spiritual leaders.  By abandoning or at least putting on the back burner the essential roles of the pastor, the pastor lost his/her defining function: it was exchanged for roles that “blend in”, and so, as Dr. Rainier rightly asserts in his article, “Today most people don’t know who the pastor is. . . .”  We as pastors forgot who we were, and so how can we expect them to know?

2) Thirty years ago, most people in the congregation held the pastor in high esteem.  The same basic explanation given in number 1 above can be given here.  I can add to this, though, that ongoing pressures from the Church Growth Movement emphases up and down denominational (and local) leadership chains to “produce numbers” has led to reluctance in pastors to confront, correct, teach, or even establish clear boundaries in church life.  Consequently, pastors lose respect for themselves and this becomes contagious.  I have sat with several former pastors - some now retired - who have confided in me that they are glad to be done with ministry, because they felt as if they were always having to pander and perform.  Those who pander and perform may be liked in the short run, but they are not often respected in the long run.

3) Leadership skills are required more today than thirty years ago.  Here Dr. Rainier is a bit vague, but it seems that he means that we cannot just preach and do pastoral care anymore and be deemed a strong pastor.  Again, the CGM moved the pastorate away from personal, face to face care, and so I think he would be surprised at how many congregations, according to some statistics, desire more face to face care from their pastors!  If anything, the bad taste left behind by pastors who thought they had to simply adopt a CEO model and steamroll their ideas through would indicate that a secular approach to leadership would do more harm than good these days, and that authentic, loving, initiative-taking care would go a long way.

4) Interpersonal skills are required more today than thirty years ago.  I don’t know if interpersonal skills are MORE necessary today than any other day, but he is right in principle: relationships matter more than flash or “success.”  Dr. Rainier says that pastors are expected to “relate nearly perfectly to everyone.”  I do not agree with this at all.  I think that the CGM has caused people to tire of the “leader on the pedestal” approach and wants instead to, in the words of Henri Nouwen, see a leader that is not afraid to be authentic and even show his/her wounds to the congregation so that we might seek God’s healing together.  This authentic approach is better for the leaders, too.  Just note how many Catholic and Protestant (including key CGM pastors) have had serious moral failures in the past three decades due to pressure to be perfect or near perfect in their leadership skills without first being authentic in their relationships.

5) Outreach was accomplished by getting people to come to church thirty years ago.  He is right on here!  "Get the backsides in the pews or chairs" was the mantra at the beginning and the summit of the CGM and in much of modern Evangelical church history.  Dr. Rainier says that “now barriers must be addressed in order for someone to be receptive to come to our churches.”  He is right, to a point.  But I would go further.  Growth now has to be seen as more than simply coming on Sunday mornings.  What happens beyond Sunday in the lives of those who come (or who might come someday) is much more valued today than simply counting people as “present” at a particular service.  Of course, we still need the revolutionary act of gathering together, praising together, and breaking bread together during times of intentional worship.  But these gatherings include preparation for “going”: the mission of the Church in the world.

6) Thirty years ago, there were very few ‘nones.’  His is correct here, of course.  But, my reasoning for the “nones” is given in the introduction.  We must address them with authentic encounters with Christ and His love, and not slick marketing ploys.

7) The internet and social media have made pastoring much more challenging than it was thirty years ago.  This is very insightful on Dr. Rainier’s part.  Rumors can spread quickly online.  False accusations can become more troublesome than ever.  Potential for abuse can be overwhelming due to the rise in social media and internet access.  However, there are also opportunities to connect in meaningful ways with the rise of social media and the web.  We can know much about one another – sometimes too much, perhaps – but never before has the potential to communicate the Gospel been so great.

Conclusion

In some ways, this has been the most cathartic article I have ever written.  I want to say again how much I respect Dr. Thom Rainier’s work, and I do not mean to play “gotcha’” with his concise and well-written article.  What I do hope to point out is that the paradigm from which he has written has a context that has done much to shape the way we as Evangelical Christians view church life.  That same paradigm has also caused some of the issues that Dr. Rainier and all of us who care about the Church and the Kingdom of God continue to wrestle with.  May we wrestle with the strength, love, and authenticity that God’s Spirit provides.  And may we trust God to help us overcome the issues that challenge the growth of God’s Kingdom – even if we ourselves helped create those issues!